About us

our Founders

Balancing careers, family life, and the responsibilities of supporting ageing parents can be challenging. Through our own experiences as part of the sandwich generation, we recognised how complex and confusing the care, benefits, and claims landscape can be.

Our aim is to provide clear, practical guidance that helps families understand their options, navigate care systems, and access the support available to older relatives. By bringing together reliable information, expert insights, and real-world experience, we help people make informed decisions with greater confidence and less stress.

 

Meet Victoria

I co-founded Resilient Roots with a simple but powerful belief: no family should have to face the care system feeling lost, overwhelmed, or alone.

When an ageing parent begins to need more support, families are often expected to make complex decisions quickly—at a time when emotions are already running high. Understanding care options, funding, services, and next steps can feel confusing and overwhelming.

Resilient Roots exists to make that journey easier.

For more than 18 years, I have worked with charities, social enterprises, founders, public sector organisations, and mission-driven businesses to turn complex challenges into practical, sustainable solutions.

Across every role, one theme has remained consistent: helping people move from uncertainty to clarity.

Whether supporting organisations to build impactful services or helping individuals navigate difficult decisions, my focus has always been on creating confidence, structure, and meaningful outcomes.

I believe care is not only a personal issue—it is often a system issue.

Families can find themselves navigating a fragmented landscape of providers, funding arrangements, assessments, and support services, often with little guidance about where to start or who to trust.

At the same time, many adult children are balancing:

  • Careers and professional responsibilities

  • Raising their own families

  • Financial pressures

  • Long-distance caregiving

  • Complex family dynamics

  • The emotional weight of wanting to do the right thing

It’s a lot to carry alone.

I bring the strategic, operational, and partnership expertise needed to ensure Resilient Roots is more than a well-intentioned idea.

My role is to build a service that is:

  • Thoughtfully structured

  • Trusted and credible

  • Sustainable for the long term

  • Easy for families to access

  • Focused on practical outcomes

By working closely with trusted partners and listening carefully to each family’s unique circumstances, I help people understand their options and take their next steps with confidence.

I understand that families don’t need more noise, more paperwork, or more uncertainty.

They need clear information, trusted guidance, and compassionate support from people who understand both the emotional and practical realities of care.

That’s what Resilient Roots is here to provide.

And that’s the foundation I’m helping to build—so that families can move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and peace of mind.

 

Meet Jody

For more than 20 years, I’ve worked across local authorities, health services, and public sector organisations, helping to redesign services, improve systems, and make support work better for the people who rely on it.

Throughout my career, I understood social care from the inside. I knew the processes, the policies, and the challenges professionals faced every day.

Then, in 2019, everything changed.

When my dad’s health began to deteriorate, I suddenly found myself on the other side of the system I’d spent decades working within. Overnight, I became more than a daughter — I became his advocate, coordinator, and support person.

I was navigating social care assessments, care reviews, occupational therapy referrals, hospital discharges, and endless conversations between different services. Despite my professional experience, I often felt overwhelmed.

What surprised me most wasn’t just how complex the system could be — it was how emotionally exhausting it was.

I spent countless hours chasing updates, trying to understand eligibility criteria, coordinating professionals, and worrying whether my dad was getting the right support at the right time. If I found it difficult with years of experience behind me, how much harder must it be for families with no knowledge of the system at all?

That experience transformed the way I think about care.

It reinforced something I had always believed: support should feel human, connected, and easy to access. People shouldn’t have to fight their way through complicated systems during some of the most difficult moments of their lives.

That belief became the foundation for Resilient Roots.

Together with Shani and Victoria, we’re building something shaped by both professional expertise and lived experience. Between us, we understand what it feels like to support someone you love while trying to navigate complex services and make the right decisions.

Resilient Roots exists to bridge the gap between people and systems — providing compassionate, practical, and joined-up support that puts individuals and families at the centre of everything we do.

Because when life becomes challenging, finding help shouldn’t be another challenge.

Meet Shani

For nearly 30 years, I have worked within the health industry and the NHS, supporting people through all stages of life. During that time, I have seen how easily health and wellbeing can be pushed aside when life becomes busy. And no group understands this better than the sandwich generation.

Many of us find ourselves caught in the middle — balancing careers, managing households, raising children or teenagers, while also supporting ageing parents or relatives who increasingly rely on us. We are the organisers, the problem-solvers, the carers, and the ones everyone turns to when something needs doing.

But while we’re busy taking care of everyone else, who is taking care of us?

I cofounded Resilient Roots because I have seen how often people in this position put themselves last. Meals are rushed or skipped. Exercise becomes a luxury. Sleep is sacrificed. Stress becomes normal. Health appointments are postponed. We tell ourselves we’ll focus on our wellbeing when things calm down, but somehow there is always someone else’s need that feels more urgent than our own.

The reality is that constantly running on empty comes at a cost. Exhaustion, stress, weight gain, poor sleep, low energy, and declining health often become accepted as part of everyday life. Yet the very people who are holding everything together are the ones most at risk of neglecting their own wellbeing.

My passion is helping people break that cycle.

Whether it’s improving your eating habits, reducing stress, finding time for movement, prioritising rest, or creating healthier daily routines, my aim is to help you regain control of your own health without feeling guilty for doing so.

Because looking after yourself is not an indulgence. It is the foundation that allows you to continue showing up for the people who need you.

You deserve the same care, attention, and compassion that you so freely give to others.

It’s time to move yourself back onto your own priority list.

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